Adult Kids Back? Tips to Help
August 3, 2012
Are you a parent to a “boomerang” child? If so, you’re not alone: 29% of parents of adult children report that one of their children has come back home within the past few years.* To ease the situation, make sure to discuss the following:
- Rent. Will your child pay rent? Unless your child is in school full-time, strongly consider having him/her pay at least a share of their living expenses (48% of boomerang children pay rent, and 89% help with household expenses)*. Agree on a due date for the payment. Put it in writing and display in a visible area—such as the refrigerator.
- Chores. How will they be divided? Consider roles when it comes to shared living areas and laundry. Avoid old routines such as doing your child’s laundry and cooking for him/her.
- Ground rules. Will visitors be allowed? How late? Will there be a curfew? If you have an adult child reluctant to leave the “nest,” a 10 p.m. curfew can work wonders!
*Pew Research Center, March 15, 2012